CONNECTION COUNSELOR
CLICK WITH ANYONE, ANYTIME, ANYWHERE
If you're reading this, you may be feeling frustrated because despite your best efforts, you're having trouble connecting with someone.
I've learned there is a universal principle that allows you to click with anyone, anytime, anywhere. One simple switch can change the way you experience the world. Awkward silences will be replaced by magical connections and as a result, you will unlock your full potential.
I believe the best things in life are free (or should be) so I'm sharing an overview and FREE guide below.
If you'd like to explore this further, I'm here to help you.
Let's begin!
The WEGO effect
“To click with anyone, anytime, anywhere, switch from MEGO to WEGO.”
That's it. Allow me to elaborate.
MEGO is a mode where you disguise your authentic self and are inwardly focused on how this moment affects you alone.
If you catch yourself thinking thoughts like these, you're in MEGO:
What can you do for ME?
I’m worried what you really think of ME.
Why is the conversational burden on ME?
This is a waste of time for ME.
WEGO is a mode where you reveal your authentic self and are mindfully focused on how this moment impacts you and the other person in combination.
If you find yourself thinking thoughts like these, you're in WEGO:
What can WE do for each other?
It’s great that WE aren't worrying what we think of each other.
Why does it feel like WE are both contributing, even when one of us is talking more?
Time has really flown by as WE enjoy this precious conversation.
Why does switching from MEGO to WEGO work?
When you are in WEGO, others can sense your genuine interest in them and your vulnerability as you reveal your authentic self. This encourages them to respond in kind. The result is a virtuous circle of trust that brings you closer together.
"Mutual empathy and vulnerability are the key ingredients in forming magical connections."
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To Switch from MEGO to WEGO, follow these three simple steps:
Step 1. ME - Focus on how you feel. Be authentic.
Step 2. YOU - Focus on how they feel. Be curious.
Step 3. WE - Explore the various ways you relate to each other in the past, present and future.
What happens next?
You feel at ease with each other. The conversation is fascinating and flows easily. Surprising connections and shared interests are uncovered. At the right moment, you both feel the "click" of a magical connection and the rest is gravy.
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